In interpersonal relationships, communication is a vital tool, through it we can empathize with the other, understand their emotions, their vision of the world, but because it is not a useful way, it is always used correctly. And is that sometimes communicating with the person we love is not an easy task, so we want to offer you some keys to take into account so that you know how to communicate better with your partner.
Steps to follow:
- More than knowing how to speak, the first point to take into account in order to communicate better with your partner is to know how to listen, to be genuinely interested in what the other has to say, it is not enough to hear, you must go further if we want to create a channel effective communication.
- For good communication it is also necessary to know how to express ourselves, in this way the other can enter our world and understand what is happening to us, both positively and negatively.
- Communication is based on dialogue, if every time you and your partner talk you end up in an argument, something is happening and it is that perhaps you have not yet learned to talk, this point is important to work on, for this you need to apply the elements above, a relationship without dialogue and conversation is a union doomed to failure.
- Annoyance cannot be the guide of our actions, so good communication with a couple must also be based on respect. Offensive words, insults, bad gestures and disqualifications are not welcome, if something has made you upset, calm down before talking about it with him or her.
- Non-verbal communication is also a positive sign and of complicity in the couple, a smile, a caress, an affection will be welcome, always remembering that there must be a balance and that words are also necessary, that the other also wants to hear them from time to time in when.
- Creating your own and personal language, with gestures, affectionate nicknames and jokes is a very typical and healthy way to communicate as a couple, becoming a completely valid tool to convey emotions and thoughts.
- With a cool head, it is easy to see and understand why these keys are vital for communication as a couple, the challenge is to take it into account when we feel upset or hurt with our partner. The advice is always the same, give way to calm, clear your mind and then talk, it is the healthiest for both.
Tips.
- Knowing how to talk about yourself is not knowing how to communicate, it is also about listening and talking.
- Manage communication with your partner with emotional intelligence, not everything is cause for a discussion, if your relationship at the communication level is sustained by constant debate, perhaps it is recommended that you visit a specialist to help you communicate better.
